Post Abortion

At least 35 years ago my life changed forever.  At the age of 18 I aborted my baby.  The memory haunted me for all these years.  With multiple suicide attempts, drug abuse, and wanting to punish myself- I finally allowed myself to heal.......to be forgiven and to forgive myself.  I am able to be free and whole.  It's never too late to let go of yesterday and grab hold of today and live your life to the fullest. What is post abortion syndrome? Post abortion syndrome is the emotional and spiritual effects that abortion has on a person’s life.

Abortion does not just affect women. Abortion affects men as well. Often the father of the baby plays a role in the woman’s choice to abort usually by offering to pay for the abortion. In some cases he may not have had a choice at all. Most women feel as if it’s their choice alone because it’s their body. Many times both the man and the woman will regret their decision.

Abortion also affects siblings and grandparents of the baby. Many times they wonder would I have had a brother or sister, a grandson or grand daughter?

Can you answer yes to any of the following questions?

Do you feel sad when you think about the abortion/s?

Do you feel guilty or ashamed?

Have you tried very hard to forget about it and put it behind you but the memories keep resurfacing?

Do you have flashbacks or triggers that remind you of the abortion? Like a particular smell or sound? Is it especially difficult at specific time of year? Like an anniversary or birthday do you remember THAT day?

Have you been suffering from depression?

Have you noticed any changes is your behavior since your abortion?

Do you wonder if your baby was a boy or a girl?

If you are having difficulty with any of these you may be suffering from post abortion syndrome. You are not alone. Statistics say that 1 out of 4 women have had an abortion. 1 out of 4.

We are here to help. “Roses of Sharon” and “Her Choice to Heal” are support groups for post abortive women. We come together not only to share our pain but to allow God’s love and His presence bring healing in that deep place that nobody can reach. Only God. Drugs, alcohol, anti depression medicine, unhealthy relationships, eating disorders will not fix us.

Roses Of Sharon- is a retreat for post abortive women. This retreat will help you experience God’s love and forgiveness. You will be healed and freed from the torment of your past abortion(s) and finally have closure to this part of your life so that you can move forward.

Her Choice to Heal- is a support group setting or may be done one on one with a counselor. To help you experience God’s love and forgiveness. To be healed and freed from your past abortion(s) and to have closure so you can move forward in your life.

What can I expect?

Expect to make some new friends. Refreshments are served and this gives us an opportunity to get to know each other.
Expect sharing time- this time is designated for open sharing. For those who are comfortable sharing. It is not required for you to be a part of this group. You may choose not to share, that’s okay too.
Expect to meet other women who are also suffering from post abortion and need healing. You are not alone.
Expect a lot of love and support on your journey to healing.

If you would like more information, to register or to talk to someone today you may call 686-1123.